Lisa Guernsey’s book,
Into the Minds of Babes, explores how screen time affects children from birth to the age of five. I learned a lot and took away a couple of key lessons.
Don’t Trust the Media
In a competitive parenting environment, parents are willing to try anything that will give their kids a leg up. Parental money fuels the multi-billion dollar business of screen-based toys, videos, and educational aids.
But on the other hand, recent scientific studies have posited a link between screen time and ADHD, autism, and obesity. Like many parents, the author felt both ashamed and indignant in 1999 when the AAP put the kabosh on screen time for kids under 2.
So which is it? Are TV and videos good for kids, or bad for them? Toy marketing and oversimplified press make parents feel like their instincts are all wrong.
When it comes down to it, you can’t force a child to think beyond her level of cognitive development. But you can challenge her, keeping her just outside the zone of proximal development, where learning happens.
The latest greatest product is not the cure-all that will turn her into a baby Einstein or Mozart. Kids need all kinds of stimulation, and media – educational or not – is just one piece of the pie.
Kids’ TV is Fine for Kids
With certain caveats, it turns out that kids’ television and videos are just fine for kids. Good television – like Blue’s Clues, Dora the Explorer, and Sesame Street – have been shown to help children learn (158). As long as they’re paying attention, children are picking something up: “young children watch television because they are cognitively engaged in it (34).”
Like rats in enriched or impoverished cages, kids learn more when there’s more available to challenge them. A television show like Sesame Street really does expose children to stories, ideas, people and places they’ve never seen before.
The most effective programming invites participation and takes the child’s developmental level into account. Younger kids do better with clear, linear story lines. Kids also learn better with repetition (124).
But, like I said, there are caveats:
- Children learn better when a person is actually present, interacting with them. The lack of social interaction seems to account for the “video deficit” observed when the same thing is taught in person vs. via recorded video. For example, a hearing child of deaf parents got all his language from passively watching television – and as a result had trouble with grammar and syntax (137).
- If a child isn’t paying attention to the video, it is likely distracting her. Screen media as background noise is not just unhelpful, it’s actually harmful. Children playing with toys while Jeopardy was on in the background were less able to engage in creative play (73). Background noise also makes it harder for babies to pick up and segment language.
- Imitation is a key strategy for development. When children see violence on TV, they may mimic it without understanding its context. On the other hand, children are just as likely to imitate polite, kind behavior they see on TV: kids who watched Dragon Tales and Mister Rogers were shown to be learning pro-social behaviors (Chapter 9).
- Kids can pick up on the vibe of what parents are watching. Children as young as 12 months pick up the general feeling of a horror movie, drama, or newscast. Children as young as 3 months pick up on anxiety in their parents (101).
- Too much screen time can keep kids from the all-important creative pretend play that helps them synthesize all the things they’re learning.
Kids Need a Balanced Diet
Lisa Guernsey’s concludes that screen time is okay for kids, in moderation. Parents should choose media based on the child’s developmental level. They should start dialogues with kids about what they’re watching or reinforce what they’ve learned from a particular show.
Children under five need lots of interaction: read to them, talk to them, and describe things going on around you.
And finally, let them do their own thing. Children need time for creative, open-ended play. When they’re playing, kids act out and self-reinforce all the things they’re learning.