There are many reasons we need to interact with another human being. such as:
Walking alone on street in NY around 2 o’clock.
When travelling, being in the cab, alone, in a new city.
Just had a nightmare and woke up.
Got a great news or ideas to share.
30 min everyday jogging in the gym.
Miss someone, wants to talk.
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The reason varies from sharing ideas, passing meme, like sharing news and ideas, to trying to maximize the efficiency within the limited time, like jogging while chatting with friends; from trying to find oneself by comparing with others, interacting with others, to pursuing the sense of “real” by seeing,touching, hearing, etc; to the most basic thing: sense of safety and certainty.
I want to address the very basic reason for why interact, why need presence by focusing on safety.
Here are two examples around safety:
When in the cab, in a strange city, for instance, the first time I went to San Jose, alone. I had no idea where the hotel was and it was dark outside, with few people on the street. When I got in the cab, I started dialing my friends’ phone number, and started the conversation, and try to let the driver hear what I was talking about with my friend, such as where I was right now, in a cab, blah blah …
I introduced my friend’s voice into the cab, not only for me, to accompany myself, but also to show to the driver while I was struggling in my little universe whether this man was good or bad, since I didn’t have another other way if this guy was bad. Though the driver may 99% not be the bad man; and though even the driver was a bad man and was listening to my chatting with my friend in phone, he still may ignore that and be as bad as he was. even I totally understood that, I still can’t help calling my friend, speaking loudly. The content is not important, the person who he/she is is also not that important. The difference between “there’s someone else here”, either in person or in voice , and “no one else here” matters. All is because that makes me feel safe.
Also, I always got phone calls when one of my friends was walking on the street by herself, after party, at night. I also always call somebody on my way back home, alone, in the night, in new york. I just feel safe by doing so.
So the wacky idea popped up in my mind is: air walking partner
A fake partner step by step with the lonely night walker, with recorded conversation playing all the time. To fake a presence, instead of using the real telepresence. It’s more of a joke. It’s depicted by me as a wearable, a bag or a waistcoat, being able to be inflated and transformed into a person size or a dog.
The conversation or the sound produced by the dog could be accelerated or slowed down, and the pitch could be increased or decreased by the steps. To inflate and transform the dog/person, we don’t need to stop in the middle of the street in the darkness, just simply walk to inflate them.
Plus, I’m also interested in doing some thing on cell phone, since those two scenarios are both around cellphone. to be continued…
meng li